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Learning Humility | 1.8.23

Series: ONE JOY

Speaker: Todd Madonna

January 8, 2023
Philippians 2:5-9'>Philippians 2:5-9

Todd Madonna

Discipleship + Multiplication Pastor

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  1. Doing Life

As a church family, we care about each other’s lives: what we’re celebrating, what we’re mourning, what decisions we are praying through, and everything in between 

(1 Thessalonians 2:8, Romans 12:10, 15). Suggested time: 10-20 minutes 

  • How are you doing? 
  • What can you thank God for this week?
  • When were you most aware of Jesus’ presence this week? When were you least aware of Jesus’ presence this week?
  • Do you have any practical needs?
  1. Jesus Centered

God uses His Word to reveal Himself to us, equip us to live the good life He’s designed for us, show us our sin, and strengthen us as we follow Him (2 Timothy 3:16-17, Colossians 1:9-12, and James 1:22-25). Suggested Time: 20-40 minutes 

(Sermon Discussion Questions) Read Philippians 2:5-9

  1. Pastor Todd shared that God is committed to restoring relationships. How can transformation in relationships happen? What is the "special sauce" that Jesus gave us as an example?
  2. Todd shared an illustration of the J-curved life and introduced the idea that Jesus showed us the descent of love, meaning that he laid aside his rights and privileges. What do you have a hard time relinquishing for the benefit of relationships with others (time, possessions, privileges/benefits, positions)? Is there a particular relationship that the Lord is laying on your heart to restore through acts of humility?
  3. Jesus washed his disciples' feet, even the feet of Judas Iscariot, who would betray him. How does his example of humility shed light on your relationships, even with those you find most difficult?
  4. At the end of the service we sang the song, "Lord, I Need You." The third stanza of the song is shown below. How does this stanza encourage you to practice humility in your relationships?

Where sin runs deep Your grace is more

Where grace is found is where you are

Where you are, Lord, I am free

Holiness is Christ in me

  1. Engaging the Heart

Jesus calls us to walk in the light, confessing our sins to God and each other. God’s Spirit works through confession and community to lead us to repentance. (Romans 3:23-24, James 5:16 and 1 John 1:5-10) Suggested Time: 10-20 minutes 

  • How are you doing abiding with Jesus this week in Scripture and prayer? 
  • What sin do you need to confess to God? What are you struggling to trust Jesus with this week? How can you give Him control of it? (As people confess sin, make sure to remind one another of the good news Jesus offers.)
  1. Expanding the Kingdom

Just like God the Father sent Jesus on a mission of reconciliation for us, Jesus sends us out as ambassadors of His reconciliation. We are called to make disciples wherever we go. (John 20:21 and 2 Corinthians 5:18-20) Suggested time: 10-20 minutes

  • People: Who in your life can you be building with right now? What does that look like during this season? 
  • Plan: Are there any rhythms planned (virtual or in-person) that we can invite these friends into? What spiritual conversations do you want to initiate with them soon? 
  • Pray: Let’s pray for our people by name; pray for their needs, opportunities to connect, and opportunities to have spiritual conversations that help them take the next steps toward Jesus.

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